The Rabbit Vibrator Bible: Myths, Magic & Hilarious Mishaps

When Sex and the City first aired the well-known rabbit vibrator episode in 1998, no one really understood how much of a cultural impact it would make. But fast forward to today, and the bunny adult toy still remains a best-seller in pretty much every major sex toy collection. Why you ask? Simple – it was, and still is a game-changer.

The real genius of this famous device lies within its dual action design. Classic ones feature a shaft for insertion, and of course, the signature ‘rabbit ears’ for massaging the clitoris at the same time. A truly winning combo. You’ll also get loads of variations, including ones with rotating beads, thrusting action, and even remote-controlled ones too. It’s really no surprise how it’s become a bedroom staple. 

As the saying goes, with great fame comes great misunderstanding (or something along those lines!). Since they’ve been around for so long, these toys have picked up some wild myths along the way – like the idea that it can ‘ruin’ you for real sex (spoiler: it won’t!). Or that they’re all the same – when really, you’ll find heaps of different features from waterproof, rechargeable and super quiet versions. 

In this article, we’ll discuss all things bunny. We’ll debunk a few myths, share some awkward (but funny) mishaps, and go on to help you find your perfect match, as well as our top picks. Whether you’re brand new to sex toys or looking to upgrade your collection, we’re here to help you hop into a whole new world of fun! 

💡 Fun fact: The rabbit vibrator first started gaining popularity in Japan. Because of cultural taboos, sex toys couldn’t resemble human body parts. Instead, in true Japanese fashion, they were designed to look like cute animals, which is where the iconic bunny ears came from! (Source: Vice, "The History of the Rabbit Vibrator")

So, if you’re deciding between bullet vibrators, couples’ toys or vibrating dildos (which are all totally amazing), we’re going to explain why the rabbit remains a true icon of the adult toy world.

What’s the Big Deal? Why Everyone Loves Rabbit Vibrators

If there were a Beyoncé of sex toys, it would no doubt be the rabbit vibrator – iconic, game-changing, and once you try it, there’s no going back. But what makes it such a worldwide superstar?

As we mentioned earlier, the double stimulation was the ground-breaking invention at the time. Unlike g-spot vibrators or clitoral stimulators which focus on one area at a time, the bunny of course hits all the spots. The shaft hits the g-spot, while the ‘ears’ or variations work on the clitoris. You can even get triple action ones, like the CalExotics Triple Ecstacy. In other words, these toys are so popular simply because they’re tried and trusted – you’re always guaranteed a great time.

It wasn’t until Sex and the City famously showed Charlotte falling in love with her rabbit in 1998 that sales truly skyrocketed. All of a sudden, what was once a niche item became a super mainstream must-have. Now in 2025, you’ll find them in pretty much every bedroom collection. 

Many users swear by it:
🗣️ "It’s like a spa day for your genitals!"
🗣️ "I didn’t know what I was missing until I tried one. Now I own three!"

From budget friendly to luxury versions, there’s something out there for everyone at every level. And with so many new features and technology evolving, we’re definitely in for an exciting future! One thing has been for sure this whole time – the hype is very real!

💡 Fun fact: After Sex and the City aired ‘The Rabbit Habit’ episode, sales of rabbit vibes reportedly increased by 700% overnight! (Source: The Guardian, "How a TV Show Changed the Sex Toy Industry")

Busting the Biggest Rabbit Vibrator Myths (No, It Won’t Ruin You for Life)

Moving swiftly on, let’s talk about (and clear up) some of the biggest misconceptions about the legendary bunny vibe. Because believe us when we say, it’s not the bogeyman of the bedroom!

Myth #1: “It’ll desensitise you forever.”

Nope! Using one of these vibes won’t numb you forever. After an intense session, it’s totally normal to feel a bit more sensitive down there. Quite similar to that post-gym feeling where your muscles are a little pumped and tired after an intense workout. Nonetheless, your nerve endings are tough cookies, and any extra sensitivity fades pretty quickly. In fact, switching up the intensity levels or using clitoral suction toys can actually help prevent overstimulation (Prause & Heiman, 2020).  

Myth #2: “It’s only for solo use.”

Again, not even close! Loads of couples use them to add an extra dimension to their bedroom adventures. They can be used during foreplay or whilst getting busy in other ways. Whatever it’s used for, you’re in for a hell of a time! As we mentioned, you can get remote controlled models, so one partner can tease while the other enjoys. See the Evolved Rotating Rabbit and the Stimulate Her Remote Control Vibrator.

Myth #3: “They’re all the same.”

Now, although the principle has remained the same (if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it), they’ve really come a long way since the beginning. Today’s rabbit sex toys come with heating functions, suction, wi-fi compatibility and even 100s of combinations, like the CalExotics Orgasmatron. The variety is endless.

Myth #4: “They’re too complicated.”

Not at all! Finding the right rabbit dildo is like picking out lingerie – you just need the right fit. If you’re new to this, stick to the simple models with less controls and features. Simplicity is sometimes best. 

(References: Prause & Heiman, 2020; Turner, 2021; Lehmiller, 2019)

“Oops!” The Funniest (and Most Awkward) Rabbit Vibrator Stories We Found

We all love a good love session, but sometimes things don’t go exactly as planned. From some unwanted interruptions to full-blown public embarrassment, here are some funny real-lift stories we came across that involve our beloved rabbit vibe.

The Airport Security Nightmare

One unlucky traveller found out the hard way that forgetting to remove batteries can lead to chaos. As she was going through security, her bag started buzzing, loudly, which led to the worker having to pull it out in front of the busy airport. Let’s just say she ended up very red-faced and had to leave in a hurry! Apparently, this actually happens quite often (Burton, 2018). Here’s a pro travel tip: take the batteries out before you pack! 

The Overly Curious Pet

Dogs are adorable, and are often the heartbeat of any household. That is until they find and mistake your rabbit dildo for a chew toy. One reddit user shared that her dog proudly paraded her vibrator into the living room while she had guests over (Reddit, 2022). The poor lady had to wrestle it out of its mouth whilst dying a little inside. Moral of the story: store your toys somewhere where your pets can’t reach!

The “Waterproof” Misunderstanding

Yes, many clitoral vibrators are waterproof, but that doesn’t mean they float. One adventurous lady thought she could let her vibe roam free in the tub, only for it to sink and get stuck in the drain, buzzing like an angry bee! (Lehmiller, 2021). Lesson learned: hold onto it!

The Ultimate Mistaken Identity

One lady shared her story that her mother mistook her g-spot vibrator for a fancy facial massager – and actually started to use it on her face! (Turner, 2019). We don’t think there’s any coming back from that to be honest! 

Got an awkward sex toy story? Drop it in the comments—we promise we won’t judge!

Ready to Hop on the Fun? How to Find Your Perfect Rabbit Vibrator

Finding the perfect rabbit toy is like dating—you kind of need to know what you’re looking for! Whether you’re a first-timer or looking to add to your collection, here’s how to pick your perfect match.

Beginner vs. Advanced: Where Do You Start?

If you’re totally new to the wonderful world of bunny vibrators. Start with a smaller, straightforward model with simple controls, like the Rocks Off Glo-Girl. If you’re more experienced and want some variety, we’d recommend some rotating beads or luxury triple stimulation ones, like the Lelo ENIGMA Wave.

Features That Matter

Like we said, not all rabbits are the same. You can get some with pulsation patterns for teasing fun, others have heating elements to mimic body warmth, and some are app controlled so you can tease your partner from anywhere in the world. Pretty insane right?! Think about how and when you’re going to use one, and what excites you most. That way you can narrow it down to a select few.

Size Matters (Really!)

If you prefer external stimulation, a slimmer, flexible model might be best. You could also expand your search to bullet vibes, finger vibrators and wand vibrators.  If you love deep penetration, look for one with a curved shaft for more g-spot stimulation. You could also look at vibrating dildos, other style vibrators, strap ons and different kinds of dildos. Bonus tip: some bunny vibes have adjustable ears for a custom fit!

Material & Safety: Silicone Is Your BFF

Like with most other sex toys, always go for body-safe materials. Most of them are anyway, but always double check to be sure. Silicone is probably the best option as it’s non-porous, hypoallergenic, and super easy to clean. For compatible lubes and sex toy cleaners, check out RaptureWorks premium collection of lube and essentials. Some cheaper plastics can leave a perfect environment for nasty bacteria to grow and live, so be sure to clean properly.
On this topic, like with most things, you get what you pay for. If you go for a premium option, you’ll find high quality materials made to last a lifetime. 

Budget vs. Luxury: Is a £150 Rabbit Worth It?

Of course, a £20 or a £60 rabbit can get the job done, but the premium models usually have stronger, quieter motors and more durability. They’ll last longer, and often have more advanced features that we mentioned earlier. So, if you’re after a long-term investment into your pleasure, splurging out might be worth it on this occasion!

(References: Lehmiller, 2021; Turner, 2020; Prause, 2019)

Our Top Picks: The Best Rabbit Vibrators for Every Pleasure Seeker

Now that we’ve covered all the above, we here at RaptureWorks know that choosing the right rabbit vibrator can be a pretty overwhelming task, so we’ve done the hard work for you! 

After some careful research, testing and feedback from real users, we’ve handpicked some of our favourites based on performance, quality and features. 

We’ve tried to cover all bases from budget friendly options to the Rolls Royce’s of the vibrator world, with all the links included where you’ll find all the details you need. Whatever you go for, they’re all guaranteed to deliver. We’re here to make sure your next purchase is one you’re going to truly love!

Happy hopping!