Why You Should Use Massage Candles As Part Of Foreplay
If you’re looking to turn up the heat (literally) in the bedroom, massage candles are a super sexy and sensual way for couples to ignite their passion and melt away tension at the same time.
Melting Hearts and Bodies: The Magic of Massage Candles
Picture this. A dim, cozy room, flickering light, and the sweet scent of vanilla or jasmine wafting through the air. As the flame slowly dances, the wax slowly melts into a warm, silky oil. But here’s the fun part – it’s not just for show! This liquid gold is your ticket to a sensual, slippery adventure.
Unlike regular wax, these ones are specially made to melt at a lower temperature, which makes it great for drizzling onto skin. As you pour the warm oil, your partner is sure to feel a delightful tingle that’s deeply relaxing and carnal. Like a hot stone massage, but instead of stones, it’s your hands!
Now, the act of massaging itself is a real star of foreplay. As you rub and caress, you’re not just working out knots, you’re building anticipation. Alongside the hot oil, every stroke and touch feels intense and electric, and will leave you both seething with desire.
To make the most of it, you could pair your sensual massages with a host of other tools. We’re talking blindfolds, furry handcuffs, wand vibrators, bullet vibrators and clitoral stimulators. Anything goes around here!
RaptureWorks top tip: some massage oils can double as lubricant for you know, the more personal types of massages. Always read the label to double check though. For all types, check out the rest our lube and essentials section.
So, the use of these waxy delights during foreplay engages all the senses, creates an unmatched ambiance, and they literally warm things up between you. The perfect prelude to passion, going from mundane bedroom to sensual spa.
A little word of warning, always check the temperature before diving in, we wouldn’t want any trips to the doctor now!
Introducing Hot Candle Wax In The Bedroom: What To Do
If you’re looking for new ways to heat up your love life, hot wax play could be exactly what you need. As the name suggests, this practice entails dripping melted candle wax onto your partner’s skin. This creates a truly exciting mix of warmth, sensation and visual appeal.
Wax On, Game On: Getting Started With Candles
A quick word of warning to begin, because safety is sexy! You can’t just use any old candle you got from Diptyque or The White Company. You’ll need to invest in some specially designed massage or bondage candles that melt at a lower temperature than normal ones. They’re made for pleasure, not pain. But if that’s what you want, you can experiment with others. Just don’t hurt yourself, OK?
You’ll want to set the mood by dimming the lights, putting on some ambient music, and maybe even bust out the silk sheets for that extra luxe feel. Go ahead and light the wick, and let it melt for a few mins. While this is happening, you can get your partner in the mood. We’ll let you decide how to do that.
Drip, Drip, Hooray: Mastering the Art of Way Play
When you’re all set to go, you’ll want to hold the wax fairly high up above your partner’s skin. We’d recommend around 18 inches, to give you an idea. You’ll then want to start with the less sensitive areas like the back or thighs, before moving onto the more delicate zones. The contrast between warm wax and cool air can result in lovely shivers of pleasure.
If you really want to experiment with temperature play, you can mix things up with an ice cube, and switch between the two. This might send your partner’s nerves into overdrive! For those who want to get creative, remember the wax will leave ‘tattoos’ on your partner, so you can make some cool patterns.
Be sure to always talk to your partner, and check they’re feeling good, and not feeling any unwanted pain. There’s nothing less sexy than an awkward ouch moment! Once you’re done, take your time peeling off the wax, it can feel just as nice as when putting it on!
As we touched upon earlier, the use of other sex toys and tools can help you transition from build up to a wild ride. Whether you’re into strap ons, ejaculating dildos, vibrating cock rings or anal beads, they can all be used once you’re both in the mood. You can think of the wax play as the gateway to pleasure!
Advice On Candle Play During Sex
Alright, hot stuff! We’ve covered all the basics, but let’s melt down how you’re going to incorporate it during the main event. Buckle up for some saucy tips.
Wax On, Clothes Off: Incorporating Candles Into Lovemaking
When it comes to sex candles, timing is everything. We’ve talked about how to use the massage oil during foreplay, but as things heat up, you can tactically drip wax on erogenous areas to boost sensitivity. Again, safety comes first. Remember, certain areas are off limits – keep the hot stuff away from the face, genitals and any cuts or sensitive skin. If this is what you or your partner like, we’d encourage you to discuss limits and boundaries beforehand, and always be careful.
For a sneaky treat, try drizzling wax along your partner’s spine while they’re on top. The surprise element can lead to some pleasantly squirmy movements that’ll feel great for the both of you!
Melt Your Inhibitions: Advanced Wax Techniques
Ready to step it up? Try the ‘wax rainbow’ technique. Use different coloured candles to create a stunning visual display on your lover’s body. Not only is it arousing, but it’s also Instagram worthy (if you’re into that sort of thing).
For a super sensory overload, combine with other toys. Imagine trailing a finger vibrator through the cooling wax patterns. Or have your partner control your pleasure with a love egg or remote control vibrator, or even Estim to really ramp things up. There truly are an endless number of combinations!
And last but not least, don’t forget about aftercare. It’s crucial here. Keep some soothing lotion nearby to moisturize the skin after plan. And also help each other out, I’ll wash your back if you wash mine, you know?
Always remember, play safe, communicate openly, and always keep things hot – but not too hot!
