Types Of Bondage Restraints
So, you’ve decided to invest in bondage constraints. Lucky for you, us here at RaptureWorks are experts at tying things up, and we don’t mean shoelaces! They come in more forms than you might imagine. But not to worry, all will be revealed.
Classic Bondage Restraints: Handcuffs
From fuzzy and playful to cold, hard steel, cuffs are a classic and versatile bondage and BDSM sex toy. Role-play as cops and robbers or use fluffy handcuffs for a softer, beginner-friendly option. Top tip: keep the keys handy or invest in ones with a quick release for extra safety.
Rope Bondage
Pretty much an art form in itself, bondage rope pretty much offers endless options. Cotton is soft and skin friendly, while nylon is more slippery and shiny. Polyester rope is also a good option. Remember, always keep some safety scissors close-by for a quick release!
Luxury Restraints: Leather Cuffs
Like the Rolls Royce of the BDSM world. Comfortable, sturdy and super sexy. Normally padded for extended use, leather bondage restraints feature D rings to attach to other gear. Try ankle cuffs for full body fun, or pair with a BDSM collar and leash for some power play.
Bondage Tape: The DIY Dream
Sticky situation? Not with this tape! It’s made to only cling to itself, never skin or hair. Great for mummification or quick ties, and it also comes in loads of colours. The Ouch Xtreme Bondage Tape is our favourite!
Velcro Restraints
User-friendly kink. The more approachable cousin in the bondage family! No need to explain this one. Easy to use, quick to remove, and perfect for beginners. When you hear that ‘rip’ sound, you know what’s about to go down!
Under-Bed Restraint Systems
Change any boring old mattress into a playground of BDSM pleasure! Not only are these easy to hide away, they come with adjustable straps that fit pretty much any bed, and they usually come with wrist and ankle cuffs. Need the perfect set? Check out the SportSheets Under The Bed Restraint System. Stick in a wedge pillow for new angles of fun.
Full Body Harnesses
Advanced restraints for the devoted kinkster who’s looking to level up their bondage game. They come in leather or rope options, and can come in simple or intricate designs. Excellent for sensation play and power exchange. Combine with other sex toys for super intense sessions. Think butt plugs, anal probes, vibrating nipple clamps and wand vibrators. Whatever your taste in ties, remember to play safe, consensual and with a safe word handy.
Advice On Bondage Restraints For Beginners?
Stepping into bondage can be both thrilling and daunting, so it’s important to start slow yet steady. Communication is key between partners – always talk about limits, desires and safe words before getting tied up in fun!
Which Restraints To Go For?
For beginners, go for easy-release options like Velcro cuffs or silk scarves. If things become a little uncomfortable, you can remove them quickly and easily. Stick to simple ties at first, sticking to the wrists and ankles. As you grow in confidence, you can explore more complex ties and set ups. You can also throw in some bondage hoods and leather bondage gear as you step up your BDSM game.
When shopping for this kind of stuff, you should also look out for quality materials that won’t irritate your skin. Avoid cheap, flimsy items that might break at the wrong time. If you’re unsure, check out some different beginner sets to help you get an idea.
Safety is number one when it comes to these things. Keep some safety scissors nearby for those (very rare) emergency releases. Better be safe than sorry! And never leave a bound partner unattended. Check in as much as possible to check their comfort and also circulation. If you suspect something doesn’t feel right, stop straight away.
How To Get Started With BDSM Restraints
Begin with short sessions to build comfort and trust. You can use pillows for support and keep your body in place to prevent any strain. Be sure to always check in with your partner and make sure they’re comfortable at all times. Experiment with different positions and angles. Once you’ve got enough practice, you can move onto bigger and better! Mouth gags, sex whips and BDSM collars. You know what they say – the more the merrier!
Bondage can bring you closer together both physically and emotionally. It offers playful power dynamics and also more intense sensations. We must stress though that it’s not always for everyone (which is totally okay!). The most important is that you and your partner feel safe, respected and excited.
So start slowly, and as you get more hours under your belt, you can gradually increase to some advanced techniques and bondage equipment. Just be sure to do so responsibly, and make sure to laugh along the way!
How To Tie Someone Up If You Don’t Have Bed Posts?
No Bedposts? No problem! There are loads of ways to enjoy bondage without relying on old school anchor points.
As mentioned earlier, try some under-bed restraint systems. These nifty items slip under your mattress, making them nice and secure without being visible. RaptureWorks has a good selection of these. Most of them are made to fit all bed sizes.
Next up, why not try using some furniture that you already have? A chair might be a good example. Secure wrists to the back of the chair, and tie up the ankles to the legs. And there you have it. Just be sure to not tip it over!
Bypassing the bed altogether, you can try a hogtie position for floor play. Connect wrists and ankles behind the back. You could use some bondage rope or tape for this. Again, we’ve got you covered here. For standing scenarios, you can also get creative with any doors. Same principles, different part of the house. Basically, you can really get creative with these things, whether you’re on the bed, floor, walls or garden! Just be sure to remain safe and no one gets hurt.
