Vibrators and remote control vibrators have come a long way since they first stepped on the scene. You could even say they’ve revolutionised the sex toy industry. Nowadays, you’ll probably find them in most households! Remote controlled vibrators though, are still fairly new to the game. But have really taken the industry by storm by giving users control and discretion. What we’re saying is, believe in the buzz. Pun intended!
Now, in case you didn’t gather, remote control vibrators are exactly what they sound like. Vibrators that can be controlled from a distance, either by a handheld remote or, more recently, smartphone apps. They've become real a game-changer for solo play, couples' fun, and even long-distance relationships!
The appeal of them lies in their promiscuousness. Just imagine being able to control your partner's pleasure from across the room, or even from another country! It's not just about the physical side of things though; it's about the mental thrill of knowing someone else is in control, or vice versa.
It’s not all just about the fun and games though! There are other lesser-known benefits too, like in sexual health therapy. According to the NHS, sex therapists say that vibrators can help individuals and couples to explore and enhance their ‘fun time’. If you get our drift!
The remote controlled ones can be useful for people with mobility issues, and those who may be recovering from surgery. They help them enjoy themselves without any strain. Clever stuff, eh?
Here's an interesting tidbit: a study published in the Journal of Sex Research found that women who use vibrators report higher levels of sexual function and satisfaction. While this study wasn't just about remote controlled ones, it does underline the benefits of including sex toys into one's sex life.
As we dive deeper into the world of remote control vibrators, we'll look at their history, how they work, and the many ways they can be used. Just when you thought you knew it all, there’s plenty more to come!
A Brief History: From Wired to Wireless Pleasure
The journey of vibrators alone has been a pretty crazy one, and has changed the attitudes and stigmas of many people around the world. While they’ve been around for the last 60-70 years (believe it or not), the remote control one is a much newer invention.
When they first came about, some say even back to the late 1800s, they were medical devices used to treat ‘hysteria’ in women. But this actually turned out to just be sexual frustration. These super early devices were pretty darn big and scary, and you needed a doctor to help you use one. Fast-forward to the mid 1900s, they became smaller, portable and much more available.
In the late 90s, the idea of remote control sex toys started to take shape. As you could imagine, they started off as wired, which meant there was super limited range and mobility. Back then though, it was a pretty big step forward in terms of technology!
Moving forward to the early 2000s is where wireless technology really started to take off. All of a sudden, these sex toys could be used from much bigger distances, which opened up a whole new world for couples. The early models used radio frequency technology, similar to remote control cars at the time!
Even though we probably didn’t know it at the time, as the smartphone industry was growing, so did the remote control vibrators one. The introduction of Bluetooth devices was a pretty big milestone. It meant people could control their vibrators through smartphone apps, which was a pretty darn big deal back then.
Since then, the introduction of Wi-Fi enabled vibes have grown significantly, and can be controlled from anywhere in the world with an internet connection. Pretty incredible, right? Forget FaceTime, it’s Vibrate Time! Some also work with music rhythms, and some even with smart home devices. Hey Google, turn me on!
As the world of vibes has evolved with dildos and pocket pussies, so too has society’s thoughts on sexual wellness. Something we take very seriously here at RaptureWorks! Even the NHS recognises the benefits of sex toys when it comes to helping sexual health. A huge upsurge in accessibility and acceptance means we’ve come a real long way from those scary medical devices.
Another fun fact! 2009 saw the release of the first ever internet-connected vibrator. It had to be connected to a computer to work. Pretty nifty, right? You could say it led the way for some of the devices we use today!
That was only 15 years ago, and just imagine where we might be in the next 15 years! With virtual reality and AI taking off these days, it seems like we’re heading in the right direction!
How Do They Work? The Tech Behind the Tingle
Next up, we’ll talk about how they actually work, and no, it’s not just magic! There’s some pretty cool technology at work behind the scenes. Let’s get into it.
In terms of function, you could say they work like most other vibrators. On the inside, you’ll find a small motor that creates waves or vibrations, normally by spinning and off-centre weight. Without stating the obvious, the ones in question are different because you can control the motor from a distance.
As we mentioned earlier, they receive signal by Bluetooth, radio frequency, Wi-Fi, and more recently, cellular data, like 5g on your phone. This means you can control your vibe with a remote control or simply a smartphone app. There’s a tiny computer chip in the remote that sends signals to a wireless receiver inside the vibrator. Pretty nifty, right?
You can normally find a host of different settings of vibration patterns as well as intensities, like the Powerful Black Vibrating Egg - 10 Functions & Remote Control. They’re basically pre-programmed into the vibe’s memory, and the controller simply tells it which one to use. You can even get some now in which you can make your own patterns and speeds.
And another great feature that we’ve seen is two-way communication. In simple terms, the vibrator can send signals back to the remote. This means you can sync it between multiple toys, or even sending haptic feedback to the person with the remote. Basically telling the controller what’s happening, a bit like when your phone vibrates!
Some advanced vibrators can be synced with music or audiobooks, or even just vibrate in time with music, like the OhMiBod Club Vibe Hero 3.OH - Black Remote-Controlled Vibrating Plug with Curved Design. It really adds a whole new dimension to ‘feel the music!’
It’s also worth mentioning that while this is all very exciting, you also have to take some care when using them. The Faculty of Sexual and Reproductive Healthcare (FSRH) in the UK states that it’s super important to use body-safe materials when using sex toys. Luckily for us in this day and age, a lot of manufacturers use body-safe silicone as a basis for a large majority of their products. This is great as it’s non-porous and easy to clean. Other safe materials might include metals like stainless steel, or glass.
Bluetooth vs. Wi-Fi: Connecting to Your Pleasure
When it comes to remote control vibrators, the way they connect can make a big difference to your experience. The two main contenders in the connectivity arena are Bluetooth and Wi-Fi. Let's take a look at the pros and cons of each.
You’ll find that Bluetooth is a pretty common choice for these products, especially for those made for close-range play. Bluetooth gadgets will normally range up to around 30ft, which is great if you’re at home, or if you’re feeling cheeky out in public. They’re also pretty easy to set up, a bit like connecting your Airpods to your phone.
A great benefit of Bluetooth vibrators is their long battery life. Since they only use a small amount of power, they last a pretty impressive amount of time. They’re also less likely to tangle with other wireless devices in the area. The only downside is the limited range, which wouldn’t be good if say, you were in a long-distance relationship.
Wi-Fi vibrators on the other hand, can be controlled from anywhere in the world as long as both the vibrator and the remote or smartphone have an internet connection. This makes them perfect for long-distance relationships or for people who travel often. It’s really like mixing business with pleasure whenever you’re away!
You’ll also find that toys with Wi-Fi often have more features when compared to Bluetooth ones. Because they can handle more data, it allows for things like video chat integration, or more complex vibration patterns. The down side of these though, is that more power is used, so it might not last as long. On top of this, it might also be a bit of a learning curve when it comes to setting it up.
It's worth noting that some high-end remote control vibrators have both Bluetooth and Wi-Fi built in, giving users the best of both worlds. These dual-mode vibrators can switch between short-range Bluetooth and long-distance Wi-Fi control whenever needed.
It’s also worth a mention that when it comes to security, both Bluetooth and Wi-Fi vibrators could have potential vulnerabilities. We know, it sounds crazy right? But it’s a real thing, and manufacturers are now using encryption to protect users' data and privacy. But like anything, it's always worth checking the security features before buying.
In 2016, a pair of researchers proved that it was possible to hack certain Bluetooth-enabled vibrators. This led to increased focus on security in the sex tech industry, with many manufacturers improving their encryption and privacy features.
We know what you’re thinking, who would want to hack a vibrator? But you’d be surprised people! The main thing is data hacking, so we’d always advise to be cautious about these things.
So, the choice is yours. If you’re looking for discreet, close-range, and long lasting play, Bluetooth is the way to go. For more features and long distance fun, Wi-Fi is for you. And if you can’t decide, you can always go for a dual-mode one that offers both!
Mixing Things Up: Creative Ways to Use Remote Vibes
There’s a whole new world of fun to be discovered when it comes to these wonderful toys. It doesn’t matter if you’re riding solo, playing with a partner, or connecting with a loved one who’s far away. This vibrator does it all!
One of the more common ways to use them, is in discreet public play. It’s a lot of people’s fantasies! Imagine being out on a date, but with your partner having all the control. It’s a kinky secret that can turn a standard date night into an unforgettable one! And without sounding like the fun police, we’d advise to keep things consensual and discreet – public indecency laws still apply!
Now, for the couple who’re into bondage and BDSM, these toys are great for domination and submission play. A nice power balance is made when one person has control of the other’s pleasure. This is awesome alongside some other sensory deprivation, like sexy blindfolds. Check out the rest of our bondage gear for more.
For those in long-distance relationships, Wi-Fi-enabled devices can seriously help bridge the physical gap. Couples can connect their devices from anywhere in the world. As mentioned already, some apps even allow for video chat integration, which truly adds to the whole experience.
If that wasn’t enough, it’s also great for foreplay, just like a wand vibrator or bullet vibrator can be. We don’t really need to explain much here, but we all know how important foreplay is before the real deal!
And last but not least, remote control vibrators can also be great for solo use. With the ability to make custom vibrations or even sync them with your favourite music, you’re sure to be in for a good time. Partner or no partner. Masturbation is a great way to connect with your body and learn about what feels best for you.
Like with any sex toy, but especially when the controls are in your hands, it’s crucial that it’s consensual, and you discuss limits and boundaries before use. With great power comes great responsibility, so have fun and use wisely!
Long-Distance Lovin': Closing the Gap with Tech
We all know the obstacles of long-distance relationships. But the most obvious one, the lack of physical touch, is probably the hardest to deal with. But not to fear, these vibrators are helping us overcome this hurdle in a super hi-tech way!
As we discussed already, Wi-Fi enabled vibes can be controlled from any Country or Continent, as long as there’s an internet connection. So you can pleasure your partner if they’re in Australia and you’re in the UK. Pretty sweet, right?
Along with video chat, there’s some further developments being made in today’s vibrator. Two-way interactive toys are starting to appear on the market, which basically means that the toys can sense both you and your partner’s movements, and respond accordingly.
For example, when one partner moves their device, the other’s reacts in real time. It’s so real and in-sync that you’ll think you’re in the same room!
Combining toys and technology like Facetime and Whatsapp can really allow you to see your partner more often and still have ‘date nights’ without physically being there. Making things easier for all involved.
If you’re into group play, the use of apps can allow multiple people to get involved. Imagine a long-distance group controlling each other’s pleasure. It’s like the House Party app during lockdown, but way better!
Choosing Your Perfect Remote Vibe: A Buyer's Guide
As we’ve spoken about above, there’s quite a few things to consider when it comes to buying the perfect remote control vibe. But fear not, we’re here to lay down the facts and help you decide what’s best for you.
Since they come in a lot of shapes, sizes and settings, you’ll need to think about exactly what you like. Love eggs might be an option for discreet play, bullet vibes target the clit, rabbit style vibrators are for pleasure both inside and out, and wearable ones are also great for external use.
Next, think about the range and connectivity. As we discussed, Bluetooth is great for close-range, Wi-fi for super long range. And remember, dual-connected ones have both.
This leads onto our next point, which is battery life. There’s no bigger buzz kill (literally) than your battery dying mid-session. Again, Bluetooth will generally last longer than Wi-Fi. There’ll also be USB rechargeable options as well as disposable. You should also consider this when buying.
Water resistance is important if you plan on using your toy in the shower or bath. Look for terms like "waterproof" or "splashproof" in the product descriptions. Be careful here though, you don’t want to accidentally drown your vibe and break it. Always read the instructions.
Next, pay close attention to the materials used. Body-safe silicone is the gold standard for sex toys, as it's non-porous and easy to clean. Avoid toys made with potentially harmful materials like phthalates. Again, check the description before buying.
Noise level might be a concern, especially if you live with others or plan on using the toy in public. Many product descriptions will mention how quiet the vibrator is. It’s a wise idea to check some reviews too.
You’ll also want to think about the amount of vibration patterns and intensities. More variety can lead to more exciting play, but some people prefer simpler toys with fewer options. What we’re saying is, if you really love one setting, then you’re not going to need another 30. Go for a simpler option.
Finally, don't forget about the remote or app. Is it user-friendly? Does it offer features you're interested in, like custom patterns or music sync? Some may be a little more complex than others and a little harder to learn. So, if you’re not so tech-savvy, these ones might not be for you.
And remember, we’d always say you get what you pay for, but sometimes the most expensive option isn’t always right for you. Everyone is different, and it’s important to choose the right one for you and you only.
Our Picks: In-Depth Reviews and Comparisons
So, you’ve read our extensive guide on the history and features of these buzzing toys, but now it’s crunch time. We’ve made a list of some really great options for you to consider. Our dedicated team have gone through some rigorous testing of loads of remote control vibes over the last few week, and it’s time to give you our verdict.
We considered things like build quality, connectivity strength, vibration intensity, noise levels, price, and overall experience. We also factored in customer feedback to give us a broader idea.
So, whether you’re new to the game, or own a collection already, check out our comprehensive reviews below, and you’ll be sure to find your perfect match!
| Product Name | Price | Type | Battery Life | Range | Settings | Power | Key Features | Rating |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Lelo Tiani 3 | £127.99 | Wearable Panty | Up to 1.5 hours | 39 feet (12 meters) | 8 Vibration Patterns | Whisper-quiet, strong | Clitoral & G-spot stimulation, body-contoured, waterproof | 4.8/5 |
| Lelo Hugo | £159.99 | Dual-Stim Vibe | Up to 2 hours | 39 feet (12 meters) | 6 Vibration Patterns | Deep, rumbly | Prostate & perineum stimulation, SenseMotion technology | 4.9/5 |
| Evolved Remote Dildo | £115.99 | Remote-Control Dildo | Up to 1 hour | 50 feet (15 meters) | 10 Vibration Modes | Powerful | Realistic shape, multiple speeds, waterproof | 4.6/5 |
| Anal Remote Control PSpot | £50.99 | Prostate Stimulator | Up to 1.5 hours | 25 feet (8 meters) | 7 Vibration Modes | Moderate | Targeted P-spot stimulation, ergonomic design | 4.5/5 |
| Dorcel Remote Control Egg | £71.99 | Vibrating Egg | Up to 2 hours | 32 feet (10 meters) | 8 Vibration Patterns | Quiet but effective | Compact design, discreet, waterproof | 4.4/5 |
Lelo TIANI 3 - Cerise Couples Vibrator with Remote & Powerful Dual Stimulation
- Overview: The Lelo Tiani 3 is a high-end wearable panty vibrator made for couples' play. With its body-contoured shape, it provides simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Smartphone app controlled
- Pros: High-quality build, versatile, strong vibrations, app control.
- Cons: Premium price point.
Lelo HUGO - Ocean Blue, Remote Control Prostate Massager with 8 Settings for Hands-Free Stimulation
- Overview: Designed specifically for prostate and perineum stimulation, the Lelo Hugo is a super luxury dual-stim vibrator that combines innovative technology with top-tier design. Its SenseMotion technology allows users to control the vibrations by moving the remote.
- Pros: Powerful dual stimulation, luxury feel, innovative controls.
- Cons: Expensive, might be too intense for beginners.
Evolved Ballistic Dual Motor Suction Cup Vibe - Powerful, Hands-Free & Waterproof, Pink
- Overview: This remote-control dildo is perfect for those who enjoy realistic shapes with powerful vibrations. It comes with 10 different vibration modes and is fully waterproof, making it a perfect all-rounder.
- Pros: Realistic design, powerful vibrations, waterproof.
- Cons: Slightly louder than other models.
Anal Fantasy Remote P-Spot Pro - Dual Motors, USB Rechargeable, 9 Functions, Black
- Overview: The P Spot Pro from Anal Fantasy is a prostate stimulator that’s designed to deliver precise vibrations to the P-spot. It has 7 vibration modes and an ergonomic shape for comfort and ease of use. Made from body-safe silicone.
- Pros: Targeted prostate stimulation, ergonomic, body-safe.
- Cons: Range could be longer.
Dorcel Secret Delight Vibrating Egg – Voice Control, 12.5 cm, 7 cm Insertable, Elegant Design, Pink with Golden Ring
- Overview: The Dorcel Secret Delight is a compact and discreet vibrating egg that’s ideal for users looking for something small and subtle. It offers 8 different vibration patterns and is fully waterproof.
- Pros: Discreet, versatile, waterproof.
- Cons: Slightly limited range.
Je Joue Nuo V2 - App-Controlled Dual-Motor Butt Plug for Couples
- Overview: The Nuo V2 from Je Joue is a flexible and powerful butt plug made for both men and women. With dual motors and a flexible shape, it provides strong and rumbly vibrations that can be controlled via an app or remote.
- Pros: Dual motors, app compatibility, flexible design.
- Cons: Learning curve with app controls.
OhMiBod Club Vibe Hero 3.OH - Black Remote-Controlled Vibrating Plug with Curved Design
- Overview: The Club Vibe Hero 3.OH is a wearable vibrator that responds to ambient sounds, making it perfect for those who enjoy syncing their pleasure with music or their partner's voice. Super slim and discreet which is perfect for public use.
- Pros: Sound-responsive, slim design, discreet.
- Cons: Limited vibration patterns.
ToyJoy Funky Remote Egg - 10 Modes, USB Rechargeable, Hands-Free Pink Vibe
- Overview: A budget-friendly option, the ToyJoy Funky Remote Egg Pink is a simple yet effective vibrating egg that’s perfect for beginners. With 10 different vibration modes and a user-friendly remote, it offers great value for its price.
- Pros: Affordable, easy to use, compact.
- Cons: Shorter range, less powerful vibrations.
This selection of remote-controlled vibrators caters to all preferences and budgets, ensuring that everyone can find something that suits their needs and wants. Whether you’re looking for a luxury item like the Lelo Hugo or a budget-friendly option like the ToyJoy Funky Remote Egg Pink, each product offers something different to improve your fun times. Choose wisely, and enjoy the ride!
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