Strap Ons

Strap ons are a powerful way to bring something new into the bedroom, giving both partners the chance to take control and enjoy a different kind of experience. Many people see them as a must-have, thanks to the flexibility they offer. If you like to mix and match, our range of dildos gives you plenty of options to use with your harness. Comfort is key too, and the right anal lube makes everything smoother and more enjoyable. For those who want to broaden their collection further, our anal sex toys provide countless other ways to experiment. And if you’re drawn to a stronger dynamic, bondage gear can add restraint and control into the mix.

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Strap ons are about confident, controlled penetration. The right set-up feels steady for the wearer and gives the receiver the shape and depth that actually work. Good choices come down to fit you can trust, shapes that land cleanly, and small prep steps that keep everything smooth from start to finish.

Picking the right set-up

Decide what you’ll use most. A mid-length, slightly curved shaft is the easiest to guide and suits longer runs. Slimmer options help with tighter angles or pegging first-timers. Check how the toy secures to your harness (O-ring size, quick-swap system, base width) so it locks in without wobble. Firm core with a softer outer layer = clear feedback on thrust with a comfortable impact.

Fit and control for the wearer

A good rig should feel like an extension of your body. Fasten until the front plate sits flat and doesn’t shift when you roll your hips. Balance across the hips matters more than micro-adjustments; if it feels steady while you walk and squat, it will feel steady in use. Once the base is planted, your hips—not your hands—do the guiding.

Angles that make control easier

Start with sight lines and hip movement on your side: kneeling behind, over the bed edge, or side-by-side with a pillow under the receiver’s hips. Keep strokes short at first to find the path that lands cleanly without bending the shaft. Change one thing at a time—angle, speed, or depth—so you can tell exactly what improved comfort.

Glide changes everything

Friction is the main reason penetration stalls. A small amount of lube from our lube & essentials range on the toy and at the point of entry keeps movement clean and predictable. Reapply in small touches rather than flooding; that preserves control and avoids mess. If you switch positions or pace, add a quick top-up and carry on.

Hitting the right internal spot

For direct prostate contact during pegging, shape beats sheer size. Curved designs with a defined head help you find the sweet spot without guesswork. If you’re a man who wants that same targeted feel on your own time, prostate massagers give focused pressure without a harness—useful when you want precision without setting up the full strap-on kit. Vibrating butt plugs are also a solid choice for everyone who enjoys anal play.

Real-world prep that boosts confidence

Lay out towels and confirm the fit before you start. If you like longer scenes or plan to use more lubricant, protective sheets take the stress out of clean-up and protect mattresses and cushions. Keep a small cloth handy for quick wipes. If any item in your set-up vibrates, check charge levels first so you’re not stopping mid-flow.

Hygiene and swaps

If you plan to change the order of activities, set the plan up front and keep a clean spare attachment ready. Wash toys with warm water and mild, unscented soap between uses. If your harness accepts quick-swap bases, pre-fit a second attachment so changes are fast and tidy.

Common mistakes to avoid

Over-tightening reduces hip movement and actually makes control harder—snug is right, rigid is not. Starting with a girth you can’t comfortably guide leads to fatigue; pick manageable size first, then scale up once you know what works. Don’t force angles across dry skin or low lube. If anything pinches, rubs, or loses shape mid-thrust, pause, adjust, and restart.

Quick wins

• Mid-length, gently curved shapes land most reliably.
  
• A planted base and steady hips beat constant hand correction.
  
• A touch of anal lube keeps motion smooth and controlled.
  
• Want targeted prostate contact without a partner? Try prostate massagers.
• For low-stress clean-up, line the space with protective sheets.

We only stock products from trusted brands, with same-day dispatch and free UK delivery over £50, so you can shop with complete confidence.